"As we pulled into our apartment complex, I looked at him and said, 'I love you so so much, but we cannot get engaged.' Six months later, we are still together, but we have been having so many stress-related relationship issues and I just know that the added stress of a wedding would’ve caused us to split and I love him too much to risk that. We went back and forth for a while and then the conversation went silent for the last 15 minutes of the drive home." Let’s get married.' I was very taken aback as he was very adamant that we don’t get engaged until the three–four-year mark in our relationship. I explained why I decided against it and he just goes, 'Let’s do it. We went out to dinner and on our drive home, I opened up about how I planned this whole big thing in my head and it was going to be this huge thing but we were gonna be alone so it would be intimate. I had been wanting to propose to him that day but knew I shouldn’t as we were both 20 and financially unstable and still working through a lot of differences in our relationship.
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